About to Be a Dad: Father to Be Guide to Pregnancy

By Min Binning

"About to Be a Dad: Father to be guide to pregnancy" was written because I was totally unprepared for pregnancy when I heard those three words:- "I am pregnant". I panicked, became a slave to the process, did not feel appreciated or of value and was not the man I needed to be to my wife and my baby to be. By the time it came to my second boy, I was more than ready but I had to learn everything from bonding with my wife and son during the pregnancy all the way to changing nappies and beyond. I took on extra responsibilities to become a stronger financial provider, started to enjoy hobbies and passions that I had been neglecting as these were the things I could pass on to my new born. My whole family, my wife, my in - laws and friends all became amazed at my fatherhood abilities to the extent I have created an evolving website (Blog) for parents, and have written several books / downloadable audios, and videos.
This book is your complete guide to understanding pregnancy, labor and raising a toddler for parents. From the moment your wife / partner finds out she’s pregnant, the thoughts about fatherhood begin. They range from questions about the process of pregnancy and labor and delivery, and from the anatomical to the emotional. You’ll begin thinking a lot about the future, from where the crib will go to baseball games with your son or dance recitals with your daughter. For 9 months up until delivery, to the day you welcome the baby home, you’ll have a lot of planning and strategizing to do. The good news is that you don’t have to go through this process uneducated.
I'll take you through all of the steps from the first day that pregnancy test shows positive to the day your child turns 3. I'll uncover all of the processes and plans involved to having and raising a child and let you in on a few secrets I've learned along the way. There's a lot of baby books out there, but this one is for you - the dad. Dads are integral to the process and more so than most men realize and this book will make sure you know exactly what's going on and when from day one. When you enter fatherhood you need "About to be a Dad".

• Language: English
• Publisher: Min Binning
• Release date: Jun 28, 2012
• ISBN: 9781476211268

Min Binning

As a hands-on father, business operator, investor, and writer, Min Binning is redefining the idea of the modern man. Min's wife, a busy Doctor, spends much of her day at work, leaving Min to look after their sons, but Min is much more than your average Mister Mom. When he is not busy raising his boys to be responsible little men, Min is involved in several businesses, chairman of his families charitable foundation, has written numerous books and stays sharp by taking continuing education courses.Min has empowered people to achieve peak performance in business, sales, money, teams, relationships and life. He is a co-founder and Director of Kuflink Group Plc, a Bridging and Peer to Peer Investment company. He has helped his own team leaders and local businesses to experience unparalleled personal and financial growth, return on investment and overall happiness. Mins story started when he achieved success by opening several businesses in Hamley's toy store, London. After three further years of success, he then encountered failure in his businesses and all the pain that came with it. He subscribed to many courses and coaching by Tony Robbins, T Harv Eker, Kevin Green, Andy Harrington, and took inspiration from Richard Branson, Sir Alan Sugar and many others. He learned his lessons and went on to a mission to help others not to befall the same fate personally and in business which is very closely related. Now Min is successfully working in the Kuflink Group which consists of a bridging financing company and a peer to peer platform which has won many awards in 2017, 2018, 2019 and 2020. Min is also successfully running a property portfolio, and carrying out multiple property developments.As an author, Min has already published three books and has two more in the works. Published books are About to be a Dad - Father to be Guide to Pregnancy; How to be a Manager in these difficult times and; Time management secrets. Although his wife is a successful doctor, she's not the only well-educated family member. Min earned his law degree from Buckingham University, where he graduated second in the year, and in 2019 completed his Legal Practice Course and Masters in Law in The University of Law - LondonMin, with his family, also set up The Kuflink Foundation in 2008. This charity foundation was created to help children in Gravesham, Kent, UK, to stay away from drugs and alcohol and encourage them to use their creative talents in sports, art, etc. The family has contributed over £300,000.00 to buy and refurbish the local county court in Gravesend, Kent, UK.Min's proudest accomplishment isn't his law degree or charity foundation but rather his two boys. He is a father to two very bright sons who constantly challenge him to be the best father he can be. Currently, he is teaching his boys the importance of saving money and has encouraged them to save in different jars. He is also instilling the idea of perseverance and teaching them the importance of practising something every day until they get better.

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About to be a dad:

Father to be Guide to Pregnancy

By Min Binning

Smashwords Edition

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Copyright © 2012 Min Binning

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ISBN: 9781476211268

Table of Contents

INTRODUCTION

CHAPTER 1

THE BIG ANNOUNCEMENT – PICKING YOUR JAW UP OFF THE FLOOR

The Uncertainty Principle

CHAPTER 2

THE PREGNANCY PROCESS – BE WHAT SHE NEEDS YOU TO BE

Prepare for the Unexpected

A Word about Hormones

Physical Symptoms of Pregnancy

Changes in Your Home

Let’s Talk about Sex

Doctor Visits

A Look at Dietary Considerations

The Birthing Plan

Take Away Tips

CHAPTER 3

THE BIG DAY – WHAT TO EXPECT AT THE HOSPITAL

Fears Are Normal

Be an Active Part

The Stages of Labour

CHAPTER 4

NEWBORN WOES – ADJUSTING TO HAVING A BABY AT HOME, YEAR 1

Leaving the Hospital

Things to Ask before Leaving

Hitting the Road

The Emotional Rollercoaster of Your Homecoming

Your Role as Father of a Newborn

Medical Fears

A Word on Travel

First Year Development Milestones

CHAPTER 5

YEAR 2 – TODDLER TERROR!

Make Time to Play

The Importance of On the Road Entertainment

Imitation Is Not Flattery

Mistakes Will Happen – Accept It, Learn and Move On

Handling No

Second Year Development Milestones

CHAPTER 6

YEAR 3 – PLANNING FOR THE FUTURE

The Terrible Twos Might Not Be Gone

Exercise Creativity

Avoid the Electronic Pitfall

Future Preparation

10 Vital Tips for All Fathers

Third Year Development Milestones

CONCLUSION

Introduction

Mention the word fatherhood to any man without children and you’re likely to get one of several possible reactions.

It’s natural to be fearful, worried or to even want to change the subject. For non-fathers, the prospect of having a baby (even if that man is already married) is quite daunting, and no matter how macho you might be, it’s natural to feel some level of trepidation. However, it doesn’t have to be that way.

Fatherhood is the single most important thing you will ever do. It doesn’t matter what your day job is – policeman, engineer or astronaut. Being a father is more important than any of these, and endlessly more daunting. The key to being happy (joyful, even) about your impending new arrival is to know what is to come so you can prepare to meet it.

For most men, fatherhood is frightening because it’s the great unknown – you lack the skills and knowledge to handle the unique challenges here, and you likely worry that you just won’t be a good dad. With the right knowledge and tools, though,