Help! He wants us to be swingers
Q My husband has just hit 60 and says he wants to put some ‘spark’ into our sex life during 2023. I agree that we do need to liven things up, but his idea of ‘spark’ is that we go to a swingers club and have sex with other people. I’m wary – there’ll be lots of younger women there and he’s bound to fancy them more than he does me. How can we sort this out?
SUSAN SAYS
A The main way to sort out this disagreement is to admit that the issue isn’t only ‘the spark’. Fact is, both you and your husband are afraid – of getting older, of losing ‘pulling power’, of
