Help! He’s angry when I don’t want to have sex
Q I love my husband very much but when I’m depressed I go off sex and he gets cross. Last Christmas, my mum died, I felt down, our sex life stopped, and he was mad. We’re sleeping together again now, but I’m scared that the same thing will happen this Christmas around the anniversary of Mum’s death. How can I pull myself together?
SUSAN SAYS
A I don’t think you need to ‘pull yourself together’. Because the problem is not that you were sad at your mum’s death and lost sexual desire – that’s understandable. The) can help you recover from your mum’s death then help you and your husband turn your marriage around.