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Strong personality keeping you from love? Dating tips for the black alpha woman

Editor's note: Meet. Assess attraction. Court her. (Or him. Or them.) Confess feelings. Discuss monogamy. Marry, maybe. Make babies, if you want. In many ways, the mechanics of dating are universal, regardless of whether you're black, white, brown or "a colorless person," as Raven-Symone famously described herself to Oprah in a 2014 interview. Still, race can color dating experiences in minute and major ways. Many say there are common, cultural threads, and we're here to tease them out. Call it a labor of love.

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The women of Wakanda made "Black Panther" revolutionary.

We see these ladies, specifically Nakia, Okoye and Shuri, as whole. They excel - and lead - in their respective fields with poise, strategy and savvy. They are quick-witted, good humored, self-assured and strong. They fiercely love and protect and are

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