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Don’t Be a Chaser or a Spacer! (Do This Instead)
Don’t Be a Chaser or a Spacer! (Do This Instead)
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Length:
22 minutes
Released:
May 15, 2024
Format:
Podcast episode
Description
There is a better than 80% chance that, at this moment, you are a Chaser. In doing a little informal research, I noticed that about 90% of the people who read my articles, listen to my podcast, read my b0oks, or use my System, are chasing right now.
Why? Because right now, their spouse (and likely, your spouse) is being a Spacer. The Chaser/Spacer pattern can vary over time -- who is doing which, how fast both are moving, and what the distance looks like. Sometimes, couple switch roles. Usually, because the Chaser gives up and becomes the Spacer, causing the Spacer to suddenly shift to being the Chaser.
There HAS to be a better way... right?
Right??
Why yes, yes there is. So glad you asked!
In this podcast, I tell you about the Chaser/Spacer roles, how they come to be, why the are so problematic, and why they don't have to be permanent roles or patterns. We unwind it.
And I tell you about the better role.
Listen below to discover how to stop being the Chaser or Spacer... and what to do, instead!
RELATED RESOURCES:
Why Connection Matters
What Space Means
The Save The Marriage System
Why? Because right now, their spouse (and likely, your spouse) is being a Spacer. The Chaser/Spacer pattern can vary over time -- who is doing which, how fast both are moving, and what the distance looks like. Sometimes, couple switch roles. Usually, because the Chaser gives up and becomes the Spacer, causing the Spacer to suddenly shift to being the Chaser.
There HAS to be a better way... right?
Right??
Why yes, yes there is. So glad you asked!
In this podcast, I tell you about the Chaser/Spacer roles, how they come to be, why the are so problematic, and why they don't have to be permanent roles or patterns. We unwind it.
And I tell you about the better role.
Listen below to discover how to stop being the Chaser or Spacer... and what to do, instead!
RELATED RESOURCES:
Why Connection Matters
What Space Means
The Save The Marriage System
Released:
May 15, 2024
Format:
Podcast episode
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