Did you know that in Canada, an apology isn't considered an admission of guilt? Or that a Pizzy Bear is the unique offspring of a Polar Bear and a Grizzly Bear? We bring in these facts as an ice-breaker before discussing more serious issues. Our hearts have been heavy with worry after a car accident involving our daughter, yet this incident has given us more insight into the value of life and the complexity of human interactions. The main focus, however, is a deep dive into the maze of dysfunctional family roles, with an intriguing look at the figure of biblical Eli as an enabler.As we journey further into the labyrinth of family dynamics, we'll introduce you to an array of personalities that emerge in such environments, from the explorers to the golden child, and from the lost child to the manipulator. We delve into the emotional underpinnings of these roles, lifting the veil off their connection to self-esteem and mental health. You might also find it interesting when we touch upon a rather unique story- a couple who were denied their choice of a name for their baby. Brace yourselves as we dissect the nuances of familial bonds and their profound impact on shaping our lives. A potent mix of psychology, biblical interpretation, and real-life stories awaits you in this episode.You can contact Dr. Jonathan and Dr. Marla Behler:graceintheshadowsor.orgdrjonathan@graceintheshadowsor.org(251) 244-4645*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!Check out our Etsystore and buy merch: https://shadowsofgrace.etsy.comhttps://www.facebook.com/Grace-in-the-Shadows-109541368379527Consider becoming a supporter of our show!https://www.buzzsprout.com/1966440/supporters/newConsider using Covenant Eyes -Covenant Eyes helps you and the ones you love live porn-free through transformative accountability relationships.Use our promo code grace1998 to get 1 month free of Covenant Eyes Porn Blocker http://covenanteyes.sjv.io/Zd202RSupport the show