The changing nature of the mother-daughter relationship

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The changing nature of the mother-daughter relationship

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Mar 29, 2024

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Mothers can be the centre of your world when you're a child, but that relationship has twists and turns over the life span. Author Susan Johnson talks about her mother and we hear your stories as well. Plus how to handle an awkward comment from your child about your friendship with another parent.

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