James Sexton in the tent today to discuss the real reason love can fail and how marriage can ruin lives. He's a genius and a truly fascinating story teller. He might seem cynical,  but i truly think he's just extremely realistic. WELCOME TO CAMP!!Edited and Produced by:  @99OvrAll  Thanks to Morgan and Morgan ZippexBlue chew for supporting the greatest show everTIMECODES00:00 Intro 1:19 Is Marriage antiquated? 9:42 What can replace marriage?13:44 Purpose of marriage + benefits 19:58 College sweethearts + is it healthy for children? 30:25 People are heroes in their stories 31:37 2nd child = 8% more 34:35 Marriage is the assumption 44:35 Divorces + "the dog will be sold" 47:01 Pre-nups + they're valid! 56:56 Sexton's divorce + seeing the person as a whole 1:01:23 Counsel, Family/Friends’ influence + divorces are boring 1:07:09 Societal norms + agreeing and understanding the rules 1:13:37 Marriage counselling + no fault divorces are great 1:23:04 Approaching difficult conversations 1:31:22 Women are paying alimony now 1:35:25 Pre-nups for whose benefits + Crazy pre-nup clauses 1:49:25 Know what you want and know how to ask for it 1:56:37 No infidelity clauses + open relationships 2:05:36 Vulnerability and real asks & gestures 2:12:05 Representing the bad guy 2:17:51 Working in NYC 2:24:10 Service of papers is a game 2:27:44 Role of porn + Romcoms are porn for women 2:38:53 Therapy using psilocybin + hearing your clients fully 2:49:55 Clients reconciling + Going to a mediary 2:54:57 Stand-up comedy is truly a trial 3:02:03 Have to take risks + feeling out your audience 3:09:08 Seeing Dave Chappelle EARLY 3:12:47 Bombing in court hard + clients lie