How Our Past Shapes Today – Episode #753

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How Our Past Shapes Today – Episode #753

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56 minutes

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Feb 27, 2024

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Cathy and Todd discuss how our upbringing shapes our current approach to parenting, share why some traditional parenting tricks fall short, and attempt to redefine romance—it's not just about grand gestures, but the heartfelt intentions behind them.

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Feb 27, 2024

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Zen Parenting is a weekly online radio discussion between a spiritual and emotional mom (Cathy Cassani Adams) and a logical and practical dad (Todd Adams). Anyone else living a life like that?

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How Our Past Shapes Today – Episode #753

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