What Does It Mean to Be Seen- Episode #745

FromZen Parenting Radio

Start listening View podcast show

What Does It Mean to Be Seen- Episode #745

FromZen Parenting Radio

ratings:

Length:

73 minutes

Released:

Jan 16, 2024

Format:

Podcast episode

Description

Cathy and Todd discuss the power of words and how their significance is subjective to the person using them. They focus on the necessity of being seen, emphasizing how the quality of our partnerships and parenting is influenced by our ability to truly see others. The discuss what it means to have a healthy relationship and share why anecdotal evidence may not always be conclusive.

Released:

Jan 16, 2024

Format:

Podcast episode

Titles in the series (25)

Zen Parenting is a weekly online radio discussion between a spiritual and emotional mom (Cathy Cassani Adams) and a logical and practical dad (Todd Adams). Anyone else living a life like that?

Skip carousel

Should I Let My Kid Fail? A Conversation with Michelle Icard- Episode 740: Todd and Cathy talk with Michelle Icard, the author of '14 Talks by Age 14' and her new book, '8 Setbacks that Can Make a Child a Success.' They discuss why we try to manage everyone's emotions, the challenges of letting our kids experience failure, by Zen Parenting Radio
58 min listen
Support Systems for our Kids- Episode #738: Cathy and Todd discuss how to create strong support systems for our kids, allowing them to have new and unique experiences and build relationships that contribute to their self-understanding. Teaching them about boundaries, by Zen Parenting Radio
58 min listen
Developing a Grateful Mindset- Episode #737: Todd and Cathy dive deep into some quotes about gratitude and explore how to incorporate gratitude into our everyday and ordinary lives. They also answer some listener’s questions and play clips from Planes, Trains, by Zen Parenting Radio
54 min listen
Fentanyl- What You Need to Know- A Conversation with Patrice Lenowitz -Episode #736: Cathy and Todd talk with Patrice Lenowitz, Executive Director of The Nurtured Parent, domestic abuse survivor, victims’ rights advocate, activist, and mother of Max, who tragically died of fentanyl poisoning in 2022. by Zen Parenting Radio
76 min listen
Find Your Next Favorite Holiday Movie- Episode 741: Cathy and Todd discuss their favorite holiday movies, what makes them great, and whether or not they are truly holiday movies. They share clips from the best movies and finish with the top 20 best holiday movies of all time. by Zen Parenting Radio
56 min listen
Gender Norms- Truth or Fiction?- Episode #739: Todd and Cathy discuss gender norms and explore ways to validate, acknowledge, and challenge them. They also dive into the comedy of Nate Bargatze, highlighting its observational nature that prompts thought and reflection. by Zen Parenting Radio
58 min listen
Rescuing Our Sons- An Interview with Dr. John Duffy: Part 2- Episode #747: In Part Two of our three-part series with Dr. John Duffy, author of 'Rescuing Our Sons,' John shares why emotional intelligence is crucial for boys. He tells a story about one of his clients who took a gender studies class and explores the 'Taylor Swif... by Zen Parenting Radio
34 min listen
Rescuing Our Sons- An Interview with Dr. John Duffy: Part 1- Episode #746: Cathy and Todd interview Dr. John Duffy, author of 'Rescuing Our Boys,' discussing his book and the state of boys in America. In the first part of a three-part series, they explore John's experiences while talking with boys during therapy, by Zen Parenting Radio
33 min listen
Dr. Shefali Tsabary & The Parenting Map- Episode #742: Dr. Shefali returns to ZPR to discuss her new book The Parenting Map: Step-by-Step Solutions to Consciously Create the Ultimate Parent-Child Relationship. They discuss how to check our own egos, recognize our children’s psyches, by Zen Parenting Radio
52 min listen
Wisdom from our Friends- Episode #744: Cathy and Todd share the best clips from interviews with their friends Michelle Icard, Dr. Devorah Heitner, Dr. John Duffy, and Dr. Alexandra Solomon (they are all keynote speakers at Zen Parenting, 2024, Jan 26&27)! by Zen Parenting Radio
57 min listen
What does it Mean to be Seen- Episode #745: Cathy and Todd discuss the power of words and how their significance is subjective to the person using them. They focus on the necessity of being seen, emphasizing how the quality of our partnerships and parenting is influenced by our ability to truly ... by Zen Parenting Radio
73 min listen
How Did It Go? Episode 743: Todd and Cathy discuss why it’s important to process how the holidays went before moving forward—what worked, what didn’t, and what can be repaired or celebrated. They also focus on school refusal after the holidays, by Zen Parenting Radio
58 min listen
Staying Open in a Distracted World- A Conversation with “Open” Author Nate Klemp- Episode #751: Todd and Cathy talk with Author Nate Klemp about his new book, Open: Living with an Expansive Mind in a Distracted World. They discuss why technology is addictive and so appealing, and how it’s not our fault that we are attracted to screens and scrolli... by Zen Parenting Radio
64 min listen
Rescuing Our Sons- An Interview with Dr. John Duffy: Part 3- Episode #748: In Part Two of our three-part series with Dr. John Duffy, author of 'Rescuing Our Sons,' John shares why emotional intelligence is crucial for boys. He tells a story about one of his clients who took a gender studies class and explores the 'Taylor Swif... by Zen Parenting Radio
40 min listen
Two Types of Messy Conversations- Episode #749: Todd and Cathy discuss the two types of messy conversations and explain why it's important to know the difference if you want to connect with your kid. They discuss the awesomeness of Zen Parenting, 2024 and share some of the most important lessons lea... by Zen Parenting Radio
61 min listen
How Our Past Shapes Today – Episode #753: Cathy and Todd discuss how our upbringing shapes our current approach to parenting, share why some traditional parenting tricks fall short, and attempt to redefine romance—it's not just about grand gestures, but the heartfelt intentions behind them. by Zen Parenting Radio
56 min listen
The Two Secrets to Parenting – Episode #759: Todd and Cathy discuss two factors that make parenting feel more self-directed and understandable. While it will still be messy, unpredictable, and tiring, at least you will feel more in your integrity while doing it! by Zen Parenting Radio
60 min listen
On-line Sports Betting- Episode #750: Todd and Cathy discuss the explosion of online sports betting and why kids and teens are more likely to develop a gambling disorder than adults. They discuss the reasons why teens use it, how AI is being used to market at them, and how, by Zen Parenting Radio
66 min listen
Even Nothing is Something- Podcast #754 by Zen Parenting Radio
54 min listen
The Stories We Tell Ourselves- Podcast #755: Todd and Cathy discuss the stories we create about our lives and process whether or not we can reconsider our stories – not to deny reality, but to focus on what’s working rather than what’s lost. They also talk about role models for men, by Zen Parenting Radio
65 min listen
Are We Over-Involved in Our Adult Children’s Lives? The Research Might Surprise You- Episode #752: Cathy and Todd discuss an article from The New York Times titled, 'Parents Are Highly Involved in Their Adult Children’s Lives, and Fine With It,' explaining that staying intimately connected to our older children has benefits, not just risks, by Zen Parenting Radio
55 min listen
Weaponized Incompetence- Episode #760: Cathy and Todd discuss the distinction between weaponized incompetence and regular incompetence, exploring how gender norms and societal expectations shape these ideas. They engage in real-time reflection on how they navigate these dynamics within thei... by Zen Parenting Radio
76 min listen
The Ordinary is the Extraordinary- Episode #756: Todd & Cathy discuss why it’s the ordinary moments that make us feel connected and content, and why what we end up missing are the simple things, not the big things. They also discuss the five things that make someone a Gen Xer, by Zen Parenting Radio
62 min listen
Curiosity Creates Connection- Episode #758: Todd and Cathy discuss about how genuine curiosity helps our kids really hear us and value what we're saying. The same goes for understanding each other in a partnership or empathizing with someone from a different gender perspective. by Zen Parenting Radio
50 min listen
Teenage Boys and Belonging- Episode #761: Todd and Cathy discussed the importance of developing talents and the challenges of pursuing one's passions. They also emphasized the need for understanding and empathizing when teenage boys lash out or question their belonging (they share an audioclip... by Zen Parenting Radio
58 min listen

More Episodes from Zen Parenting Radio

Skip carousel

Teenage Boys and Belonging- Episode #761: Todd and Cathy discussed the importance of developing talents and the challenges of pursuing one's passions. They also emphasized the need for understanding and empathizing when teenage boys lash out or question their belonging (they share an audioclip... by Zen Parenting Radio
58 min listen
Weaponized Incompetence- Episode #760: Cathy and Todd discuss the distinction between weaponized incompetence and regular incompetence, exploring how gender norms and societal expectations shape these ideas. They engage in real-time reflection on how they navigate these dynamics within thei... by Zen Parenting Radio
76 min listen
The Two Secrets to Parenting – Episode #759: Todd and Cathy discuss two factors that make parenting feel more self-directed and understandable. While it will still be messy, unpredictable, and tiring, at least you will feel more in your integrity while doing it! by Zen Parenting Radio
60 min listen
Curiosity Creates Connection- Episode #758: Todd and Cathy discuss about how genuine curiosity helps our kids really hear us and value what we're saying. The same goes for understanding each other in a partnership or empathizing with someone from a different gender perspective. by Zen Parenting Radio
50 min listen
The Ordinary is the Extraordinary- Episode #756: Todd & Cathy discuss why it’s the ordinary moments that make us feel connected and content, and why what we end up missing are the simple things, not the big things. They also discuss the five things that make someone a Gen Xer, by Zen Parenting Radio
62 min listen
The Stories We Tell Ourselves- Podcast #755: Todd and Cathy discuss the stories we create about our lives and process whether or not we can reconsider our stories – not to deny reality, but to focus on what’s working rather than what’s lost. They also talk about role models for men, by Zen Parenting Radio
65 min listen
Even Nothing is Something- Podcast #754 by Zen Parenting Radio
54 min listen
How Our Past Shapes Today – Episode #753: Cathy and Todd discuss how our upbringing shapes our current approach to parenting, share why some traditional parenting tricks fall short, and attempt to redefine romance—it's not just about grand gestures, but the heartfelt intentions behind them. by Zen Parenting Radio
56 min listen
Are We Over-Involved in Our Adult Children’s Lives? The Research Might Surprise You- Episode #752: Cathy and Todd discuss an article from The New York Times titled, 'Parents Are Highly Involved in Their Adult Children’s Lives, and Fine With It,' explaining that staying intimately connected to our older children has benefits, not just risks, by Zen Parenting Radio
55 min listen
Staying Open in a Distracted World- A Conversation with “Open” Author Nate Klemp- Episode #751: Todd and Cathy talk with Author Nate Klemp about his new book, Open: Living with an Expansive Mind in a Distracted World. They discuss why technology is addictive and so appealing, and how it’s not our fault that we are attracted to screens and scrolli... by Zen Parenting Radio
64 min listen
On-line Sports Betting- Episode #750: Todd and Cathy discuss the explosion of online sports betting and why kids and teens are more likely to develop a gambling disorder than adults. They discuss the reasons why teens use it, how AI is being used to market at them, and how, by Zen Parenting Radio
66 min listen
Two Types of Messy Conversations- Episode #749: Todd and Cathy discuss the two types of messy conversations and explain why it's important to know the difference if you want to connect with your kid. They discuss the awesomeness of Zen Parenting, 2024 and share some of the most important lessons lea... by Zen Parenting Radio
61 min listen
Rescuing Our Sons- An Interview with Dr. John Duffy: Part 3- Episode #748: In Part Two of our three-part series with Dr. John Duffy, author of 'Rescuing Our Sons,' John shares why emotional intelligence is crucial for boys. He tells a story about one of his clients who took a gender studies class and explores the 'Taylor Swif... by Zen Parenting Radio
40 min listen
Rescuing Our Sons- An Interview with Dr. John Duffy: Part 2- Episode #747: In Part Two of our three-part series with Dr. John Duffy, author of 'Rescuing Our Sons,' John shares why emotional intelligence is crucial for boys. He tells a story about one of his clients who took a gender studies class and explores the 'Taylor Swif... by Zen Parenting Radio
34 min listen
Rescuing Our Sons- An Interview with Dr. John Duffy: Part 1- Episode #746: Cathy and Todd interview Dr. John Duffy, author of 'Rescuing Our Boys,' discussing his book and the state of boys in America. In the first part of a three-part series, they explore John's experiences while talking with boys during therapy, by Zen Parenting Radio
33 min listen
Wisdom from our Friends- Episode #744: Cathy and Todd share the best clips from interviews with their friends Michelle Icard, Dr. Devorah Heitner, Dr. John Duffy, and Dr. Alexandra Solomon (they are all keynote speakers at Zen Parenting, 2024, Jan 26&27)! by Zen Parenting Radio
57 min listen
How Did It Go? Episode 743: Todd and Cathy discuss why it’s important to process how the holidays went before moving forward—what worked, what didn’t, and what can be repaired or celebrated. They also focus on school refusal after the holidays, by Zen Parenting Radio
58 min listen
Dr. Shefali Tsabary & The Parenting Map- Episode #742: Dr. Shefali returns to ZPR to discuss her new book The Parenting Map: Step-by-Step Solutions to Consciously Create the Ultimate Parent-Child Relationship. They discuss how to check our own egos, recognize our children’s psyches, by Zen Parenting Radio
52 min listen
Find Your Next Favorite Holiday Movie- Episode 741: Cathy and Todd discuss their favorite holiday movies, what makes them great, and whether or not they are truly holiday movies. They share clips from the best movies and finish with the top 20 best holiday movies of all time. by Zen Parenting Radio
56 min listen
Should I Let My Kid Fail? A Conversation with Michelle Icard- Episode 740: Todd and Cathy talk with Michelle Icard, the author of '14 Talks by Age 14' and her new book, '8 Setbacks that Can Make a Child a Success.' They discuss why we try to manage everyone's emotions, the challenges of letting our kids experience failure, by Zen Parenting Radio
58 min listen
Gender Norms- Truth or Fiction?- Episode #739: Todd and Cathy discuss gender norms and explore ways to validate, acknowledge, and challenge them. They also dive into the comedy of Nate Bargatze, highlighting its observational nature that prompts thought and reflection. by Zen Parenting Radio
58 min listen
Support Systems for our Kids- Episode #738: Cathy and Todd discuss how to create strong support systems for our kids, allowing them to have new and unique experiences and build relationships that contribute to their self-understanding. Teaching them about boundaries, by Zen Parenting Radio
58 min listen
Developing a Grateful Mindset- Episode #737: Todd and Cathy dive deep into some quotes about gratitude and explore how to incorporate gratitude into our everyday and ordinary lives. They also answer some listener’s questions and play clips from Planes, Trains, by Zen Parenting Radio
54 min listen
Fentanyl- What You Need to Know- A Conversation with Patrice Lenowitz -Episode #736: Cathy and Todd talk with Patrice Lenowitz, Executive Director of The Nurtured Parent, domestic abuse survivor, victims’ rights advocate, activist, and mother of Max, who tragically died of fentanyl poisoning in 2022. by Zen Parenting Radio
76 min listen

Related podcast episodes

Skip carousel

The Power of Unconditional Love: How to Show Your Kids You Care: In this episode of Dr. Kathy Says, Dr. Kathy discusses the importance of children feeling liked, in addition to being loved. She explores how being liked can provide a sense of safety and belonging, and how it can impact our relationships as adults.... by Celebrate Kids Podcast with Dr. Kathy
31 min listen
Two Types of Messy Conversations- Episode #749: Todd and Cathy discuss the two types of messy conversations and explain why it's important to know the difference if you want to connect with your kid. They discuss the awesomeness of Zen Parenting, 2024 and share some of the most important lessons lea... by Zen Parenting Radio
61 min listen
The Power of Friendship: A Guide for Parents: In this episode, the importance of guiding young people in building friendships is discussed, highlighting the role of parents and mentors in helping teens and tweens navigate relationships. The conversation is inspired by a research paper on the... by Celebrate Kids Podcast with Dr. Kathy
12 min listen
Biblical Headship & Submission: Introduction: The importance of mutual respect and understanding in a partnership. Part 1: Understanding Unhealthy Relationship Dynamics Traditional perspectives on gender roles and submission in relationships. Misconceptions around submission and he... by Relationship Truth: Unfiltered
34 min listen
Are You Threatened By Your Partner's Success? | DATE YOUR WIFE | EP 028: How can two powerful entreprenuers also co-exist and THRIVE in a romantic relationship? Danielle and Garrett discuss what it's like, both being producers that work together in and out of each others businesses, and how that effects their... by Date Your Wife
32 min listen
How to Open Your Relationship Without Burning It Down, Creative Monogamy, & Create the Relationship You Want With Dr. Joli Hamilton by Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow
70 min listen
Creating Spaces of Belonging: A Core Need for Families: On this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy delves into the importance of creating families as a place of belonging. Referencing a recent Christianity Today article, the discussion explores the role of belonging in discipleship and... by Celebrate Kids Podcast with Dr. Kathy
14 min listen
Do You Want to Be Right or Do You Want to Be in Relationship? (Matthew Files): A difficulty that shows up in relationship is not voicing our considerations to another person. If we don’t speak such things, we may stop talking and lose affinity. The quality of relationship does not depend on the circumstances or the content of the r... by Western Baul Podcast Series
53 min listen
Awakening through Conscious Relationship: Communicating our vulnerability and learning to listen - seeking to understand another’s experience - are the keys to discovering the truth of our connectedness. This talk explores the challenges and gifts of dedicating ourselves to becoming... by Tara Brach
53 min listen
Episode 10: The Real Reason You're Avoiding Outsourcing: In this episode, we share how both of our upbringings has affected our views on outsourcing, why hoarding resources and not hiring someone else is robbing them of the opportunity to step into their greatness and the real reasons why we try to do everythin by Plenty with Kate Northrup
50 min listen
Dr. Becky Kennedy (psychologist on parenting): Dr. Becky Kennedy (Good Inside) is a clinical psychologist and author. Becky joins the Armchair Expert to discuss why she wants to help people understand themselves through their kids, why some traditional parenting techniques aren’t effective, and how to set boundaries with your children. Dr. Becky and Dax talk about how much a person’s past shapes who they are now, why she was compelled to share her ideas on social media, and how expectations of parents can sometimes be unfair. Becky explains how repairing a relationship can be difficult, why people fall into the same patterns consistently, and how behavior can be separated from one’s identity. by Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
136 min listen
Dating & Relationship TIPS by Coffee and Cleavage
18 min listen
Episode 541: Creating Connection and Feeling Seen with Dr. Jody Carrington by Make Some Noise with Andrea Owen
53 min listen
Support Systems for our Kids- Episode #738: Cathy and Todd discuss how to create strong support systems for our kids, allowing them to have new and unique experiences and build relationships that contribute to their self-understanding. Teaching them about boundaries, by Zen Parenting Radio
58 min listen
How might we better connect with people?, with Ted Brodkin and Ashley Pallathra by People Who Read People: A Behavior and Psychology Podcast
49 min listen
TMHS 384: The Science Of Friendship & How Your Community Impacts Your Health - With Guest Dhru Purohit: “We don’t accomplish anything in the world alone… and whatever happens is the result of the whole tapestry of one’s life and all the weavings of individual threads form one to another that creates something.” – Sandra Day ‘O Connor ... by The Model Health Show
75 min listen
Attachment Styles and Cycles | Dr Laurie Watson #665: In this conversation, Dr Laurie Watson joins me as we discuss the dynamics of relationships and how they can impact sexual intimacy. We explore the misconceptions and expectations that couples often bring into therapy, by Sexy Marriage Radio
28 min listen
Terri Cole: How to Stop People Pleasing and Actually Set Boundaries by Biohacking Bestie with Aggie Lal
57 min listen
The Value of True Friendship with Ginny Gay & Brandi Lust by The One You Feed
67 min listen
#119 Esther Perel: Relationships and How They Shape Us: As human beings, relationships are fundamental to who we are. We know that relationships can be a big source of happiness and fulfillment in our lives but they can also be one of the major sources of stress. So, why is it that we often find relationshi... by Feel Better, Live More with Dr Rangan Chatterjee
89 min listen
The Undervalued Power of Attachment Styles in Relationships with Dr. Stan Tatkin by It Starts With Attraction
68 min listen
E83: What Does it Actually Mean to "Connect?" by Emotional Optimism: Living in The Silver Lining Podcast
4 min listen
243: The Art of Curiosity: We all desire a life filled with healthy connections. Unfortunately, the way we relate to others stops us from having the fulfillment we hope for. Oftentimes we assume the intent of other’s words, actions, and decisions. These judgements leave... by The Connected Life
63 min listen
92. Holding Our Desires Lightly With Katy Dion: Do you struggle with competing desires in your relationship? Do you find yourself unable to reconcile those longings? Desire is a complex emotion that can take many forms, so how do you learn to navigate all of its intricacies? For most of her adult... by Your Secret Is Safe With Me
70 min listen
101 Aligning Purpose, Resources and Spirit • Matt Ludmer by Qiological Podcast
77 min listen
Initiating Intimacy | Rachel Facio and Stacey Sherrell #667: In this conversation, I'm joined by Stacey Sherrell and Rachel Faccio from Decoding Couples. - We have a great conversation about the transition from normal married life to intimacy, the importance of creating margin, by Sexy Marriage Radio
38 min listen
Strengthening Our Spousal Relationship: Understanding the Importance of Respect and Differences by Life after Kids with Drs. Brooke and Lynne
31 min listen
Creationship NOT Relationship: What if we didn’t have a relationship, but we had a creationship instead? What could we create that is beyond this reality? Gary Douglas and Dr. Dain Heer, the founder and co-founder of Access Consciousness are here to discuss relationships, a very... by The Art & Industry of Business & Living
35 min listen
How to Unlock the Power of Deeper Connections with David Brooks by The One You Feed
65 min listen
The Unspoken Needs in Men and Women: In this episode, Danielle & Garrett dive into the complexities of relationships and the importance of attention and connection. They discuss the concept of friction in relationships, highlighting how growth and progress can lead to friction, while... by Date Your Wife
40 min listen

Discover this podcast and so much more

What Does It Mean to Be Seen- Episode #745

What Does It Mean to Be Seen- Episode #745

Description

Titles in the series (25)

More Episodes from Zen Parenting Radio

Related podcast episodes