This episode Carlie dives into the TikTok comment drama that started a whole conversation around hurtful things people have said to both stay at home and working moms about their choice to be in or out of the home. The experience of being "shamed" for either choice is shared and there is so much harm that comes from these labels or assumptions. Carlie dives into some of the crazy things people have had said to them and even her own experiences grappling with comments from loved ones.   Warning: Use discretion when listening to this episode (unsurprisingly given the frustrations around this topic) it is packed with a few more curse words than usual.   Thank you so much for listening! If you enjoy this episode please rate/review/subscribe & share with a mama who could benefit from this discussion. Follow along for more relatable mom content on Instagram/TikTok @CarlHerMommy and tune in for Mom Poll Mondays every Monday on Instagram Stories where the community weighs in on the topic of the week. You can always reach us via DM or at carlhermommy@gmail.com & check out more on the blog at www.carlhermommy.com