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#5 - Fear of Abandonment & Being Replaced in A Polyamorous Throuple Relationship

#5 - Fear of Abandonment & Being Replaced in A Polyamorous Throuple Relationship

FromThrouple Talk Podcast


#5 - Fear of Abandonment & Being Replaced in A Polyamorous Throuple Relationship

FromThrouple Talk Podcast

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Length:
40 minutes
Released:
Sep 18, 2023
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

If your partner is polyamorous and you fear that you may be replaced, or are feeling insecure about the depth of connection your partner is experiencing with another person, this episode is for you!
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In this episode, we delve into the various factors that contribute to them, including societal conditioning, personal insecurities, and the challenges of balancing multiple partners' needs and desires. As individuals who are successfully navigating the intricate landscape of polyamory, we offer our personal stories, practical tips, and insights on overcoming the fear of loss.
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00:00 - Intro
00:26 - It's not strictly related to romantic relationships
02:23 - Relationship changes when you become a parent
04:50 - Polyamory and loss of original relationship
06:15 - Entering a triad as the additional partner to a preexisting couple
08:00 - How do you find happiness when you have to deal with change
11:43 - How to deal with feeling excluded and dealing with comparisons and keeping score
15:00 - Accept that monogamous structures don’t apply to polyamory
19:00 - Focusing on what you gain versus what you are missing
23:00 - Security within polyamory is a personal responsibility
24:48 - Facing the fear of coming out as polyamorous within a monogamous relationship
31:00 - Missing that poly something within monogamy and dealing with it
32:35 - In polyamory you’re not supposed to be everything for your partners
34:35 - Understanding what we can provide to a partner and what it not within our wheelhouse
36:00 - We’re trying to be everything for a partner because societal expectations and we fail
38:00 - We’re missing on the relational support within a tribe and community
39:24 - Wrapping up and next episode Unwiring Hardwired Monogamy

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Released:
Sep 18, 2023
Format:
Podcast episode

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Our mission is to bring help, hope, and community to those seeking meaningful non-monogamous relationships by sharing the wisdom we've gathered as a result of our personal, real-world experience, as well as conducting interviews with guests. Whether you are already in a relationship that is open, polyamorous, or somewhere in between, or are still just dipping your toes in the water to see if polyamory or non-monogamy is even right for you, we hope you find our podcast to be your go-to resource for information and encouragement.