In this episode of the Peaceful Parenting Podcast, I sit down with Christy, a mother of two boys, for a coaching episode.  We discuss the challenges Christy has faced with her older son, Jay, in terms of emotional regulation, sibling rivalry, and self-deprecating behavior. We talk about Christy's nurturing approach and understanding towards Jay's needs and I offer strategies to improve their relationship. The importance of one-on-one time, being neutral during sibling fights, and indirect discussions about feelings are highlighted as well. We talk about: [3:30] Christy’s intro and background [5:35] What PDA means [8:00] What Jay’s struggles look like  [10:05] Handling meltdowns [12:45] How to handle when your child's response turns to self harm [15:10] How Jay responds to empathy [20:55] Understanding their sibling dynamic [23:40] How is 1:1 and special time [30:25] Focusing on prevention [44:55] Part 2: Check In [46:25] Update on sibling rivalry [48:05] Special time update [53:25] Handling verbal lashing out  [57:35] How to address him calling his brother names [59:30] How has his self talk improved   Resources mentioned in this episode: Free ‘How to Stop Yelling’ Course: www.sarahrosensweet.com/yelling  Join us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/peacefulparenting  Newsletter: www.sarahrosensweet.com/newsletter   Connect with Sarah Rosensweet   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahrosensweet/  Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/peacefulparentingfreegroup Website: https://www.sarahrosensweet.com Book a short consult or coaching session call: https://book-with-sarah-rosensweet.as.me/schedule.php