Recognizing the Signs of Abuse
Carrie reflects on her experience of being in abusive relationships, particularly with her second husband, who exhibited gaslighting and narcissistic behaviors.
She discusses the covert nature of her second husband's abuse and how he could present himself as kind and harmless to others.

Seeking Safety and Coping Mechanisms
Carrie opens up about her motivation to stay in her second marriage despite recognizing the abuse. She attributes this decision to her desire to provide financial stability for her son.
She discusses how her husband would use extravagant gestures to keep her son connected and happy.

Treated Like a Child
Carrie talks about how her second husband treated her like a child, limiting her authority and decision-making power.
She shares her frustration about her husband undermining her disciplinary actions with her children when he returned from business trips.

Misdiagnosis and Spiritual Journey
Carrie reveals that she had been misdiagnosed with bipolar disorder and put on medication for seven years.
She shares how she turned to her faith and embarked on a spiritual journey, finding solace and guidance through scripture and prayer.

Discovering Leslie Vernick and Emotional Healing
Carrie discusses how she stumbled upon Leslie Vernick's teachings and how they resonated with her.
She describes the impact of reading "The Emotionally Destructive Marriage" and attending Leslie's workshops on her healing journey.

Escaping the Trap and Finding Strength
Carrie vividly expresses the emotional toll of her toxic marriage, comparing it to feeling trapped and needing to chew off her own leg to escape.
She shares how her life has changed since leaving her second husband and how she is rebuilding her life.

Learning to Ask for What She Wants
Carrie talks about the importance of learning to ask for what she wants and how it has improved her relationships.
She mentions that people now have more respect for her since she has become more assertive and self-assured.

Words of Encouragement
Carrie offers words of encouragement to listeners who may be going through similar struggles, emphasizing that there is hope and they are not alone.
She advises seeking support, doing the necessary work, and being willing to open up the past for healing.

Conclusion:
Carrie's story serves as a testament to the power of self-discovery, faith, and healing after facing multiple divorces and challenging life experiences.

Resources Mentioned:
Register for Leslie's free workshop on December 5, 2023: www.leslievernick.com/story
Learn more about Leslie's other programs, Walking in Core Strength program, Moving Beyond People Pleasing, and Empowered to Change at www.leslievernick.com .
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