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128 - The Avoidant Attachment Style (+ Why They Pull Away)

128 - The Avoidant Attachment Style (+ Why They Pull Away)

FromOPENHOUSE with Louise Rumball and leading therapists


128 - The Avoidant Attachment Style (+ Why They Pull Away)

FromOPENHOUSE with Louise Rumball and leading therapists

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Length:
45 minutes
Released:
Nov 27, 2023
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

The avoidantly attached deserved some airtime. Are avoidantly attached individuals avoiding love or avoiding vulnerability, rejection and potential discomfort? In this heavily requested episode, this week Louise & clinical psychologist Dr. Tari Mack dive into the Avoidant Attachment Style, shed light on the motivations behind the avoidantly attached and also explore how those with the avoidant attachment view OTHERS (including the anxiously attached!).
The pair discuss:

What’s really going on behind the Avoidant Attachment Style? (exploring the true drivers)

The difference between the Dismissive Avoidant and the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style

How seeking comfort & sharing feelings is often thought of as ‘useless’ for the Avoidantly Attached

The ties between childhood & the avoidant attachment style

The specific triggers and fears related to this attachment style; and

Why withdrawal, shutting down, seeking space to regulate - often without communicating - can impact a relationship


The pair also discuss the top triggers and fears of the avoidant attachment style and why things often go wrong, quickly, after having sex. 
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Released:
Nov 27, 2023
Format:
Podcast episode

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OPENHOUSE - a fresh, fun and real podcast that explores the amazing impact that therapy and human connection can have on all areas of our lives. Louise and her favourite therapists, clinical psychologists & mental health experts take weekly stories, questions and dig into Louise's life (the good, the bad and the ugly) so you can get your #FreeTherapy fix. From relationships to dating, to sex, intimacy and more, this podcast has something for everyone.