In this episode, I chat with my friend Ari Wisner about their experience in sex and relationships as a non-binary person. Specifically, we chat about the interactions between sex, gender, and sexual orientation, their biggest challenges when dating, how masculine and feminine energy manifest in non-binary sex and relationships, and the importance of evolving language to include gender-neutral terms.

About Me

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.
Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/

About Ari

Ari is a queer artist based in London. Ari is the author and illustrator of the Transient Light Tarot and Trinity Tarot. More recently they illustrated the "Raise Your Vibrations" oracle deck by Kyle Gray. Through art and card decks, Ari creates tangible tools to aid reflection, prompt intuition, and promote authentic, peaceful living.
Ari's Website: https://www.ariwisner.com/
Ari’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/ari_wisner/

Resources Mentioned

A Guide to Gender Identity Terms: https://www.npr.org/2021/06/02/996319297/gender-identity-pronouns-expression-guide-lgbtq
Feeld Dating app: https://feeld.co/
Transient Light Tarot Review: https://georgelizos.com/blog/transient-light-tarot-deck-review

Connect With Me

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/
Website: https://georgelizos.com/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos
Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/

My Books

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj
Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf
Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd