Are you a top, bottom, vers, vers bottom, vers top, power bottom, dom top...? The list goes on! In this episode, I'm joined by Sergio Zapata in a conversation about how these gay sexual position preferences are empowering or limiting our sex life. Kicking the episode off with a candid sex story of how I negotiated these labels within me, we chat about whether being a top or bottom is something we're born with or not, we explore the interplay between these positions and masculine/feminine energies and share ways of exploring our sexuality beyond these labels.

Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!

About Me

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.
Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/

About Sergio

Sergio Zapata, label-less, but if there was a description of him it would be an alchemist, a person who transforms or creates something through a seemingly magical process. Growing up in an evangelical Christian household, bound to scriptures and dogmas of a strict patriarchy he broke through it all to create a life of his own where he could deconstruct his faith and develop self acceptance not just as a gay man, but a human.
In search of truth and clarity he continued his education in the field of architecture in NYC where he found a home and a way of life for him to thrive and develop a sense of self. Now an architect transforming living spaces as his formal career, he also dedicates his time in the study of mysticism, religion, shamanism, self development and wisdom seeking. Living in a world so concrete and earthly as architecture, but also dwelling in esoteric practices as spirituality he finds the duality of both worlds to balance and compliment each other, creating a harmonious life.
He is an alchemist continuing to transform his own life through a seemingly magical process, and helping others to find that magic of their own by shining his own light unapologetically. 
Connect with Sergio at https://www.instagram.com/sergio0zapata/

Connect With Me

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/
Website: https://georgelizos.com/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos
Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/

My Books

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj
Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf
Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd