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The Impact of Unknown Neurodiversity on Healing Father Wounds and Understanding Relationship Patterns-Giji Dennard

The Impact of Unknown Neurodiversity on Healing Father Wounds and Understanding Relationship Patterns-Giji Dennard

FromNeurodiverse Love with Mona Kay


The Impact of Unknown Neurodiversity on Healing Father Wounds and Understanding Relationship Patterns-Giji Dennard

FromNeurodiverse Love with Mona Kay

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Length:
60 minutes
Released:
Oct 10, 2023
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

On October 19, 2023 from 7-9pm EST, Mona and Laurie Budlong-Morse, LMFT will be co-facilitating a LIVE workshop for "Adult Children of Autistic Parents" If you are interested in attending the workshop, the cost is only $25 and you can click here to register.
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During this episode with Giji Dennard, we address a topic that many of us may not have thought about. Giji shares how we may not have known that our father (or primary caregiver) was neurodivergent and when we look back at our childhood through a neurological lens, we gain more understanding, and can begin to heal wounds that may have impacted our most important relationships.
We also address the following topics;

Residual daddy issues.
We choose our partners by familiarity or void.
Understanding why your father may have had difficulty coping with crowds, or had challenges with social interaction and/or family events.
Looking at the ways your father showed affection, shared emotions or facial expressions through a different lens.
When you grow up thinking your father is being apathetic, is not interested in you, or is showing disdain...but this isn't true.
What imprints may have been made on your life?
We absorb what our environment displays.
The impact on our relationships of how our fathers related to our mothers.
The journey to heal begins with awareness of triggers.
The value of changing our perspective on our interpretations and internalization of various misunderstood issues.
Are you carrying pain, hurt and trauma that needs to be healed?
We may pick partners to help us heal our father wounds, but sometimes that may make things worse.
The 3 steps to healing father wounds: 1) Recognize; 2) Repent and Release; 3) Know That You Can Be Loved and Valued.
The goal is to get back to "Wholeness".
Your past doesn't have to define who you are.


To contact Giji check out her website at: https://www.wellfedresources.com/meet-giji
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If you would like to buy a digital deck of the "Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards", or the recently released "Neurodiverse Love Conversation Card Workbook", subscribe to the Neurodiverse Love newsletter, or get more information about the support groups that Mona facilitates for neurodiverse couples, or the neurotypical/non-autistic partners, check out her website at: www.neurodiverse love.com, or send her an email at: neurodiverselove4u@gmail.com

Thank you for being part of the Neurodiverse Love community!


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Released:
Oct 10, 2023
Format:
Podcast episode

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Are you or your partner “on the spectrum” (autistic)? Do you have different communication styles, emotional & social needs, think about & process things differently & have different sensory needs? Do you want to better understand, appreciate and accept each other's differences and strengths? If so, this podcast is for you! We share lived experiences, lessons learned & strategies for understanding each other in a mixed neurotype (ASD/NT) relationships. No relationship is perfect, but we believe “when you BOTH know better, you CAN both CHOOSE to do better!”