Have you ever heard the quote: "What Triggers you also reveals what you need to heal"?    Do you tend to respond to things that offend you with a quick knee-jerk reaction? Are you easily triggered by other people's actions especially your spouses? Even if what the other person has said or done is wrong it is our responsibility to manage our own reactions to them. As we all know, you can't change anyone but you can only change yourself.    What triggers you will reveal in you the areas that need healed the most and it is our job to work through those issues - not the other persons. In a marriage this is so very important as we can easily lose sight of our communication by only responding to the offense and not the problem at hand. Which can then lead to a larger issue that never seems to get resolved. Hear how Scott and Mandie recognize their own triggers and how they have worked together to overcome them and have better communication together.    The two books referenced in this episode are: Bait of Satan by John Bevere https://amzn.to/3BdP5JE   Love and Respect by Dr. Eggerichs https://amzn.to/3owIXbH