Sheleana Aiyana is the founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 4 million empowered individuals. Her training and immersion in couples facilitation, inherited family trauma, family systems, conscious relationships, somatic healing, and plant medicines inform her holistic approach to seeing relationships as a spiritual path. In this episode, we discuss her book “Becoming the One: Heal Your Past, Transform Your Relationship Patterns and Come Home to Yourself.” Sheleana shares the wisdom she has gained along her journey, providing us with the tools to face and heal our own past traumas, find our inner strength, and ultimately step into our greatest expression.  When we break the unhealthy patterns of our past and heal our hurts, we can show up in our relationships as a whole person, rather than seeking the healing and wholeness from our partners. This is the foundation of a conscious relationship. Sheleana’s path has been deeply influenced by the shadows of childhood trauma, which she faced with unwavering determination and courage. From a rather young age and as a result of an earth-shattering heartbreak, she was forced to confront the pain of her past, refusing to be defined by it and repeat it. Instead, she embarked on a transformative journey of healing, using her experiences to fuel her pursuit of personal growth and self-empowerment. Through her own struggles and triumphs, she found solace and liberation in the realms of spirituality and self-expression.  Her story and learnings serve as a bright beacon of hope, illustrating that even in the face of the most challenging circumstances, we can emerge as our most beautiful expression, relating to ourselves and the world around us in a conscious, loving way.   Sheleana's Website: https://sheleanaaiyana.com/ Rising Woman Website: https://risingwoman.com/ Sheleana on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sheleanaaiyana/ Becoming The One on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3OTLtVf   Timecodes: 0:00 Introduction 3:10 Sheleana's Personal Story 9:35 Abandonment & Parenting Wounds 16:05 The Inherent Risks of Expansion 20:45 Addressing Recent Personal Trends 26:58 Utilizing Nature to Find Balance 32:47 The Importance of Self-Care 43:50 Navigating Relationship Differences 50:05 Kelly's Personal Experience