Reddit Stories | OP (F29) has been in a healthy, happy relationship with her boyfriend (M34) for a year and a half. They've overcome initial emotional differences and communicate openly. Although they've discussed marriage positively and aligned on major life goals, her boyfriend can be stubborn and needs to reach decisions independently. OP seeks advice on gently encouraging him towards proposing sooner, without manipulation or pressure. She's planning a special vacation for their upcoming two-year anniversary, hoping for a proposal but doesn't expect it. Seeking insight, especially from men, on nurturing the idea without rushing or causing resistance.