Reddit Stories | OP has been in a relationship for eight months and is grappling with feelings of insecurity and jealousy when his girlfriend openly expresses attraction to male celebrities and other men. These emotions are triggered by comments such as finding celebrities attractive or making jokes about finding men with specific qualities appealing. He acknowledges that his girlfriend generally finds him attractive and initiates intimacy, but his insecurity leads to fears of inadequacy and concerns about potential infidelity or a breakup. He is conflicted between the desire to discuss his insecurities with his girlfriend for catharsis and resolution and the concern of burdening her with his feelings.