Reddit Stories | OP expresses his perspective on not being chosen as the best man for his brother's upcoming wedding. The narrator and his brother have never been particularly close, having different interests and lifestyles. The brother's best friend of over a decade was chosen as the best man, which the narrator understands and is comfortable with. However, the family's reaction to this decision has been negative, with them criticizing the brother for not selecting his own sibling. The narrator, while not enthusiastic about weddings and public speaking, is willing to support his brother's special day. He seeks advice on how to have a rational discussion with his family to defuse the situation and ensure that the wedding day remains free of unnecessary conflicts.