Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti  I Get Women, But I CAN'T KEEP Them! (Exactly How To Keep Her Interested) Do you constantly find yourself in new relationships? Are you unable to maintain a long-term one? Do you see the women you want to attract but reject you? Suppose you see yourself in a cycle of moving on to the next woman and want a more meaningful connection and a long-term relationship than a short one. In that case, you are in for a special treat because, in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into the intricacies of attracting and maintaining meaningful connections with women and centering on the challenge many individuals encounter in successfully transitioning from initial attraction to a lasting relationship.  Apollonia has seen many of her highly valued clients that end up with unfulfilling relationships.  She will explain the underlying factors that can hinder the establishment of long-term bonds. She adeptly explores the common dilemma of attracting women but failing to sustain a committed relationship. And why often a highly valued woman rejects you.  So, if you're struggling with maintaining a long-term relationship, finding the right woman, and ensuring you're a highly valued man, this podcast episode is for you! Key points in this episode: 0:58 - You get the girl, but you can't keep her. Apollonia will explain why you always seem to get any girl you want, but she's always getting away. 1:32 - One reason you can't keep a woman is an avoidment attachment style. It means that they tend to be more independent and don't try to foster an emotional connection to other people. This is usually because they don't want to get hurt. 1:59 - How do you know if you have an avoidant attachment style? People with an avoidant attachment style have a habit of not wanting to have deep conversations or are emotionally distant when it comes to dating. 2:40 - Most people with an avoidant attachment style might attract anxious people. The anxious attachment people seek more reassurance while the avoidant will try to seek independence, which can both be catastrophic. 3:37 - When men keep getting women but can't keep them, it might be because they are emotionally unavailable women instead of a highly valued woman who plays hard to get. This might be tricky, but it's all about seeing the patterns in the relationship. 4:13 - Apollonia proves an example of a highly valued woman playing hard to get. A high valued woman will seem very selective regarding dating, is open to communication, and is honest about what she wants in the relationship. 5:15 - An emotionally unavailable woman (or a commitment-phobe) will back away when things get serious in the relationship. She will try to create distances from them. She's leaving them unsure about what she wants in the relationship. And send mixed signals. 6:47 - Sometimes, men have a 'frat boy' mentally. It's okay for a man to be a carefree guy, but a woman wants to see some stability in their life. Or at least some sense of responsibility. 7:28 - Sometimes, they might be too focused on the attraction. It's not all about looks; it's about emotional attraction. Some good-looking men see this problem of getting the woman because he is attractive but always fail to have that emotional connection. 8:28 - They wait for her to initiate things. Both partners must contribute to the relationship's growth; it's not who does more than the other. It's about working together to make this relationship work. 10:29 - When can a guy struggle to keep the woman in the relationship is because they are not in touch with themselves. Throughout life, they have been high achievers and tried to be the man the girl wants. But it's never what he wants. They need to make sure when going into a relationship that you must be in love with yourself to love her.  "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show