Reddit Stories | OP has been in a 2-year relationship and is facing challenges with his girlfriend's (36F) preferences regarding sex. They both have different views on consent and sex roles due to her past abusive relationship and his stance against gender roles. Their sexual frequency has declined due to differing preferences and schedules, leading to frustrations. She sometimes expresses a desire to be "taken" sexually but is not open to discussing its details. OP seeks advice on navigating this complex situation without crossing boundaries or resorting to manipulative behavior.