Do We Show Up for Others in Love Only When it’s Convenient for Us?

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Do We Show Up for Others in Love Only When it’s Convenient for Us?

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Aug 22, 2023

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Are a difference of values the cause of friction in relationships?
Do we only show up and love people when its convenient for us?

Released:

Aug 22, 2023

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This is where shame and victimhood die. Here we discuss non-mainstream perspectives: personal growth through relationships, motherhood, and life challenges, awareness of the ego mind vs soul, stepping out of the medical paradigm in homebirth, freebirth, and infertility, the wild journey from maiden to mother, and how to take radical responsibility of your life and shed victimhood for good.

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Part 1: Shedding Maidenhood Before Pregnancy | Tay’s Freebirth Story: Tay is one of the most unique humans I have ever met. Her story encapsulates what is possible for all women in birth and postpartum. She stepped into Mother energy before conception, releasing her Maidenhood and the maiden's need for external validat... by WISE WOMEN DIARIES
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Our Mind Creates False Stories Everyday: Do You Believe Them?: Some examples of daily ego stories: "I am failing as a parent because of XYZ," "Who am I to help people if I can't even figure out my own life," "I was so worthless because I got nothing done today," "My child is manipulating me," or "I can't wear th... by WISE WOMEN DIARIES
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My Insights from a Persistent Body Symptom: My body is leading me to true Trust of my body, something Western Medicine AND Holistic Medicine does not embody or teach. Our body doesn't start healing when we start taking a pill or supplement or see a chiropractor. It's always healing, but it doe... by WISE WOMEN DIARIES
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Do We Show Up for Others in Love Only When it’s Convenient for Us?

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