Talking to Ashleigh Renard (the Carrie Bradshaw for married people) was so fun and enlightening- no surprise! After sharing her story of rehabbing a shabby marriage in her memoir, Swing, she now answers hundreds of requests from her audience each day on how they can improve their relationships. Check out her viral How to Keep Monogamy Hot video series! As a synchronized skating coach and choreographer, she spent over two decades fostering cooperation and teamwork for adolescent girls. Part coach, part storyteller, and part cooperation whisperer, Ashleigh has inspired millions of couples to radically reimagine the connection and joy available to them in their marriage. During our conversation, we talked about her experience as a Swinger, how self-love informs the love we need from others, talking about sex with our partners, responsive desire vs spontaneous desire, and more!This episode is brought to you by ILIA, eBay, and Pillsbury.ILIA is the OG of clean, thoughtfully formulated beauty products! Visit ILIAbeauty.com and use WITHWHIT at checkout for 15% off your first purchase.Ensure your next purchase is the real deal with eBay Authenticity Guarantee. Everyone deserves real. Visit ebay.com for terms.With Pillsbury Crescents, prep your dinner recipe in 30 minutes or less. Find more weeknight dinner recipes at Pillsbury.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.