Lily Xu Lijia (徐莉佳) is a Chinese sailboat racer who won the bronze medal in the women’s Laser Radial class at the 2008 Summer Olympics and the gold medal at the 2012 Summer Olympics in London where she was also the flag bearer for China at the closing ceremony. She also medalled at the 2006, 2008 and 2012 World Championships. In this STIMY Episode, Lily shared:3:38: Why Lily had short hair until the age of 154:49: Why Lily told her mother to consider a divorce7:55: Growing up with her disabilities10:45: How Zhang Ning, her first coach, discovered and chose her to attend the Shanghai sailing training camp13:30: Life in the Shanghai sailing program15:43: The consequences of disagreeing with what they were told to do in the sailing program16:35: The incident that led Lily to seriously study English19:10: How Lily narrowly escaped death during a training session off the coast of Wujian;21:46: Discovering a tumour in her left knee 24:33: Why Lily loves sailing27:12: Why she adopted the name Lily28:38: Her experience at the 2008 and 2012 Summer Olympics36:02: Communicating with Jon Emmett during the 2012 London Olympics 41:48: Being China’s flag bearer for the Closing Ceremony at the 2012 London Olympics 44:00: Retiring from the sport after the 2012 London Olympics 45:01: Participating in her third Olympics at Rio;47:34: Working in media53:01: How COVID-19 has impacted her life & career54:44: Being an author55:31: One thing Lily would do differently56:03: What Lily believes in that most people don’tShow notes: https://www.sothisismywhy.com/28