Today’s guest has a fascinating and important perspective on what it is to live authentically, or as she describes it, “flawesomely”. Kristina Mänd-Lakhiani is the co-founder of Mindvalley, one of the world’s most powerful life transformation platform with a following of 20 million and still growing. She is an entrepreneur, writer, international speaker, artist, philanthropist, and host of the podcast, Flawesome with Kristina. With 20 years of experience in the personal growth industry, her content has touched the lives of tens of thousands of students. Today she joins Finding Brave to discuss her book Becoming Flawesome: The Key to Living An Imperfectly Authentic Life. Kristina explains what it means to live “as ourselves without ourselves” and opens up about the revelation she had when she realized that she was missing herself. We discuss our views on perfectionism, why you can’t recover from being yourself, and the distinction between unlearning certain behaviors versus what’s part of your personality. We also explore the concept of emotional analgesia and the relationship between this and gender roles. Kristina also shares what she hopes readers will glean from her book and we conclude with a practical step towards embracing our imperfections. Tune in to find out how you too can overcome perfectionism and self-doubt by embracing your “flawesome” self.   Key Highlights From This Episode: • An introduction to today’s guest: Kristina Mänd-Lakhiani. [01:16] • What it means to live as ourselves without ourselves. [03:07] • What Kristina missed about herself when she realized that she did miss herself. [07:58] • How Kristina views perfectionism, how it shows up, and how to address it. [09:19] • What emotional analgesia means and how to overcome the ideal of not feeling things. [15:30] • How emotional analgesia relates to gender roles. [18:04] • Thoughts on toxic positivity and why we’re not comfortable with other people’s pain. [23:56] • What Kristina hopes that readers will take from her book. [27:54] • One step to begin your “flawesome" journey: replace judgment with curiosity. [30:08]   For More Information: Kristina Mänd-Lakhiani  Kristina Mänd-Lakhiani on LinkedIn Kristina Mänd-Lakhiani Instagram Kristina Mänd-Lakhiani on Facebook Flawesome with Kristina   Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:  Kristina’s Book: Becoming Flawesome: The Key to Living An Imperfectly Authentic Life   Ready to Take Your Professional Life and Leadership to the Next Level FAST?  TAKE KATHY’S “THE MOST POWERFUL YOU” 8-MODULE VIDEO TRAINING COURSE NOW! Hi folks! For those who missed the enrollment of my LIVE 8-week online training course The Most Powerful You, I’m happy to share that you can learn this critical content at your own pace, through the The Most Powerful You video training program. And if you want hands-on coaching help, it’s available to you through this program as well.  The video training teaches content of my latest book The Most Powerful You helping professional women address what I’ve seen are the 7 most damaging power and confidence gaps that block women from achieving their most exciting goals, and happiest highest potential and success. This includes imposter syndrome that impacts 75% of executive women today.   The course offers: •   8 Power- and Confidence- Boosting Video Training Modules (16 videos in all) •   A Step-by-by process for boosting your Career, Confidence, and Impact •   Fantastic Additional Resources from over 30 of the nation’s top experts  •   A Private Online Support Group for Members •   And more Sign up now at mostpowerfulyou.com/videotraining. And when you register for the Accelerate level, you’ll receive the 8-module video training, PLUS a 60-minute private career consultation AND a 20-minute LinkedIn profile upgrade consult – all for only $997. I’ve delivered aspects of this training to over 50 organizations worldwide (including at a division of the United Nations) and participants have called it tra