Growing up in divorced families, we've always been hyper-aware of the so-called "happily ever after" myth in marriages. As married women and EFT-trained couples therapists, we discuss our unique perspectives on what makes a happy marriage and the challenges that come with it. But what does "happily ever after" really mean, and is it even achievable?In today's episode, we dive into the pitfalls of unmet marriage expectations and explore the importance of redefining "happily ever after" for each couple. It's not about perfection but rather openness, connection, and willingness to turn toward one another despite adversity. Join us for an honest conversation about the realities of married life. Let's challenge the traditional notion of "happily ever after" together and redefine what it means to be truly committed to one another. With open dialogue and a commitment to growth, perhaps we can find our own unique version of happiness in our relationships.Notes Regarding Today's Episode:The quote referenced in today's episode is by the great Esther Perel, who states, “Divorce happens now not because we are unhappy, but because we could be happier.” For more information visit her website:https://www.estherperel.com/For more information on Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy visit: https://iceeft.com/what-is-eft/Connect with Us:Follow Honest Women Podcast @honestwomenpodcastFollow Jessica: @jlhutchisonlcpcFollow Andrea: @andreaburklyLearn more about the Honest Women Podcast: www.honestwomenpodcast.comHonest Women is the podcast for every woman juggling the demands of modern life (while trying to keep her shit together) and finding that it’s all just a little more difficult than she thought it would be.  Your hosts, Andrea Burkly and Jessica Hutchison, are two very real mental health professionals who are taking honest conversations from inside their offices to the outside world.Disclaimer:Please note while this podcast features two therapists, and may feel very therapeutic, this is not therapy! Please be entertained, and know that through our creative content, we are not providing mental health care. No diagnosis. No treatment. No medical advice. Just creative content. Please seek appropriate mental health support in the real world.