Listen up for a big Sister pep talk on why Jayna thinks marriage is completely overrated. Tune in for everything you need to hear before you slip on that ring. This week, Jayna is weighing in on weddings. After 18 years in the bridal industry, (and two divorces of her own episode 1) she’s seen it all! Spending the most intimate hours before the ceremony with brides-to-be and their families Jayna is now a self-proclaimed wedding expert. Today, she lifts the veil, revealing why some of her couples are happily together 18 years later and some, never even made it down the aisle.  This is an extremely important message, with your lifelong happiness at stake. No one goes into their wedding planning on it ending in divorce, but if the right questions aren’t asked and the marriage preparation isn’t in place, the end may be inevitable.  Take your time and contemplate Jayna's advice. If you are confident you have given your marriage the respect and thoughtfulness it deserves, and you have found your person then make sure you catch episode 5 for the first step in a lasting marriage once that ring is securely in place.  Topics covered in this episode:  Why marriage is overrated  Giving marriage the respect it deserves What makes a good marriage  How do you know if you’ve found the person for you Being selfish when you are dating If you’d like to connect with us about your secret to a long lasting marriage, or a lesson you learned from jumping in too soon please email us at Jayna@biglashpodcast.com. Don’t be shy!    Be sure to follow us on INSTAGRAM!  https://www.instagram.com/jaynamariemakeup/   Check out our WEBSITE: https://www.hellojayna.com/biglashenergypodcast   Join our email list to be a #BLEBestie!  Sign Up NOW! https://www.hellojayna.com   Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We’re learning and laughing as we go! Come join us!  Share this podcast with your friends, so we can grow this tribe together!