When I was first dating Kevin, I was consumed by thoughts of his ex and constantly questioning if our relationship was as special as theirs had been. In this episode, I'm sharing 5 reminders that helped me to get out of my head and recognize how much more special our relationship truly is. You deserve freedom from your insecurities too, my friend.1. You are the only one thinking about the ex all of the time.2. Your partner has been shaped by their previous relationship.3. You are worth the risk.4. It is different, but it is not less special.5. You are not version 2.0.Ready to create a stepmom life you love? Grab my FREE GUIDE 15 Ways to Become a Happier Stepmom Overnight: https://stepmomming.com/happierLet’s work together: https://stepmomming.com/quick-links/Join our FREE support group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/stepmommingainteasyAdditional reading:https://stepmomming.com/lessons-learned-role-second-wife/https://stepmomming.com/second-wife-syndrome/https://stepmomming.com/lies-second-wives-tell-themselves/