Today we're going to be talking about the question, “How can I stop being lazy in my dating life?” Lily shares some of her hot takes on this topic, including the productivity myth about dating, a reminder to practice self-compassion, and encouragement to try something else if pushing yourself hasn’t worked thus far.  This episode is full of massive permission and inspiration to be bold as hell in your love life and beyond. Hot-takes from this episode: You don't have to go on dates RIGHT NOW to find an amazing relationship Productivity in dating prioritizes performing over caring for your body and nervous system  When you stop to care for your nervous system, you will be more in alignment with higher decision-making AND better dates If you want to feel cared for in your love life, give that care to yourself Links: The Brazen Breakthrough Course Follow Date Brazen on Instagram Follow Date Brazen on TikTok Show notes:https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/how-can-i-stop-being-lazy