Gary John Bishop is a Scottish development expert and author who has written two no-nonsense books about self-development called "Unfu*k Yourself: Get Out of Your Head and into Your Life," and "Stop Doing That Sh*t: End Self-Sabotage and Demand Your Life Back." Today, he and Mark talk about the ins and outs of personal development and philosophy. Hear how: Gary promotes actions over attitudes Doing something well for the first time will often involve doing things despite lack of confidence Sometimes creating what you want will involve being "unrealistic" so that you can imagine yourself the way you'd like to be. Listen to this episode to hear a frank discussion about the philosophy of how to improve yourself.