"Why can't I stop looking at pornography? I hate this about myself." "My wife just found out about my addiction, now she wants a divorce... what can I do?" "I caught him looking up porn again. I'm devastated. What does this mean for our marriage?" Unwanted pornography viewing is leaving countless couples and individuals feeling betrayed, alone, and deeply ashamed. "Why can't I stop looking? I feel out-of-control. Am I evil?" "Doesn't he love me? Am I not enough for him? Is he going to hurt our kids?" There are lots of questions... And few clear answers. "How do we move forward? Can we ever recover?" In our very first conversation, we're going to examine *why* unwanted, out-of-control pornography viewing causes us so much pain. Porn hurts... But we don't often stop to think why. Where does the pain come from? Why does it hurt so bad? If we want answers about how to navigate the porn problem, we have to be willing to ask some hard questions. Please invite people who you think would enjoy or benefit from this content.