We have two bad-ass podcasters and thought-leaders on the show this week. Nicci Nunez and Alex Stewart, hosts of the Swipe Fat podcast, join Lily for a conversation about dating as a plus-sized woman.  In this episode, they talk about their recent decision to take a dating app detox, share the story of how they became friends and then podcast hosts, and talk about life as plus-sized women in the dating world.  Hot-takes from this episode: Thin privilege in dating versus overcompensating in other areas because you are plus-sized  Creating a safe space with other plus-sized women at Swipe Fat events You can’t be right for everybody, all of the time What self-care looks like in the midst of difficult times  Alex and Nicci’s decision to take a dating app detox, why it felt difficult and, yet, important to do Links and Resources:Swipe Fat Podcast Swipe Fat on InstagramSwipe Fat at TikTok Alex on Instagram Nicci on InstagramDate Brazen on Instagram Date Brazen on TikTokSwipe Fat Podcast Community on FacebookSwipe Fat on Patreon