Calling vs Assignment, Knowing What To Step Into and Searching For Your More

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Calling vs Assignment, Knowing What To Step Into and Searching For Your More

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This is where we lay the groundwork and then hear from a few women who have found themselves unsettled personally. If you feel a desire for more, but aren't sure where to start - we hope you find your first step here.
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Aug 16, 2021

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