We actually answer several questions today, but the one the episode is named after is where we spend most of our time...and such a fundamental question.   What is the difference?  Here are some more thoughts on that.But the other questions we spend some time on are:  How do we become good leaders in our home?What if our husbands aren't on board with this type of homeschooling/discipline?How do we encourage kids to get their work done?2:04 - How can you be the leader in your home in a gentle way? 11:32 - How can we work on issues in the home when our husbands don't see the issues? 21:30 - Are using incentives the same as rewards and consequences?  33:47 - How can you encourage your kids and keep them on task without draining them?