When you've been hurt over and over, it becomes a reflex to point the finger at other people. But what if you're the common denominator in your relationship woes? How can you tell if the problem might be... you? In this episode, I spill the three telling signs that you need to pay attention to so you break free of helplessness and take radical responsibility for your own decisions! **Ready to transform? Join my acclaimed 12-week course for women who want to attract Extraordinary, High-Quality relationships: Situationship to Soulmate.Episode Highlights:Three phases that we go through in healing trauma and when it's time to transition out of "victim" stageHow my 10 years of experience on dating apps made me realize that I was being a hypocrite and behaving the same way as the people who were hurting meHow to empower yourself and stop blaming other people or external circumstances Behaving the same way as the people you might be complaining about and how this relates to being toxicThe connection between being toxic and the people you surround yourself withCall To Action: An activity to help you free yourself from helplessness and declare personal responsibility for your lifeWant even More?Register for my FREE workshop The Lovable WomanFollow Gloria on Instagram for helpful tips: @bygloriazhangReady to transform? Join my acclaimed 12-week course for women who want to attract Extraordinary, High-Quality relationships: Situationship to Soulmate.