Join Devi and Jacques for the first part of the show as they answer the question on everyone's mind- How to make anal sex AWESOME on the first try!They share personal tips for "warming up" and easing entry, so that anal "play" becomes anal pleasure, no matter who is on the receiving end!Later, Join Devi and HeartFelt Communication Founder, Kevin Oppelt as they share some insight on how to ask for what you want sexually, what to do if you are afraid of asking, and what happens if your partner says NO! Kevin’s journey into NVC (Nonviolent Communication) began in 2004 while working in the healing arts of Shiatsu, and yoga. It was through his experience facilitating Tantra yoga and specifically its practice in personal relationship where he developed a deep curiosity regarding communication. Tantra yoga, a yoga that utilizes sexual energy as a mean for reaching higher states of consciousness and bliss seemed to lack a model for discovering what is truly alive from moment to moment in our daily interactions. NCV provided the model he was looking for that enriched his life by developing skills to authentically recognize the life serving energy of needs. It has been his discover that acknowledging the needs that are alive in one’s self and another’s forms the foundation of clear and effective communication. Find out more about Kevin at http://www.heartfeltcommunication.net/