You may have heard me mention the "Not-Self" before. But I've never really gone into what it is. That's where this episode comes in. The not-self is a term we use in Human Design when the mind falsely identifies us as something we're not. (So a projector thinking (and acting like) they're a hard worker - or that they're a worker bee - is the not-self. Because projectors aren't here to work hard all the time. Being a hard worker occasionally is fine. But being a hard worker all day every day is part of the not-self for projectors. Many of us come to Human Design having lived as our not-self our entire lives. We listen to what our society or our families tell us we need to be - a hard worker, an initiator, a go-getter, etc. And then we mentally identify with that. So we spend most of our lives in our not-self, not working with our energy and wondering why things aren't going great. This episode is here to change that.   We'll cover - The Not-Self theme for each Human Design type - The Not-Self theme for each center - Figuring out your whole Not-Self theme - Steps to distance yourself from your Not-Self theme so you can live in alignment with your energy   For all the links mentioned in this episode (plus the books I couldn't remember), check out the complete show notes: https://www.thatprojectorguide.com/tpl025/