Did you slowly recognize that you were on the receiving end of abuse?In a relationship that you hoped would improve and you thought you might help?Have you become entangled with life issues with someone you recognize as dangerous? Lana's story is powerful. But, that power had to be developed, stepped into, and leveraged to walk away from an abusive relationship. It wasn't easy, or quick. Take inspiration from her journey, and know that even in the most dire situations, you can take life-saving steps, too. You're worth it. Listen in.Big hugs,RhobertaHIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:Personal experience that you may relate toOvercoming the fear of leaving and its consequencesRecognizing the slow progression of abuseWhy you might not want to call it abusive...at firstHow to get over residual fearsKnowing why and how to set non-negotiable boundariesGUEST: LANA WOLFE, author of Like A Moth To A Flame: A Fatal AttractionLana Wolfe is a life coach helping others overcome fear and inner resistance. After spending 20 years in accounting, she embarked on a new career as an author, speaker and life coach. Following her near-fatal experience as told in her book, “Like a Moth to a Flame: A Fatal Attraction,” she overcame the trauma and developed the mantra of "fill your bucket before you kick the bucket." She is actively pursuing her passion to help women overcome fear, find inner peace and live the life of their dreams by checking things off their bucket list and live a life without regret. She wants to help people stop living the same-old dull life day after day and start living a fuller life every day.In pursuit of her own dreams she is checking things off her bucket list such as raft through the Grand Canyon, touring the Redwood Forest, and hiking 14'ers in Colorado. Up next, she is hiking the Pacific Crest Trail.LANA WOLFE'S GIFT FOR YOU: ebook: 5 Steps to Fill Your Bucket CONNECT WITH MY GUEST: LANA WOLFEWEBSITE: https://www.lanawolfe.comPODCAST:FACEBOOK:  https://www.facebook.com/LanaWolfeCoaching/?modal=admin_todo_tourYOUTUBE:INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/lanawolfe26/TWITTER: LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lana-wolfe-20415a15/--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? We can talk: Introductory session for new clients, $97CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER! I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.FOLLOW DR. SHALER...WEBSITE: https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.comPODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.comFACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctorTWITTER: https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLINKEDIN: https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerINSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerPINTEREST: https://www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShaler-------------------------------------------------------------I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,join my Support Circle now.Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.WOW! Join now. Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowered Community. ----------------------------------------------------------------------#leavingmyabuser #leavingabuse #recognizingemotionalabuse #likeamothtoaflame #gettingawayfromabuse #lanawolfe #escapingabuse #healingafterabuse #walkawayfromabuse#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulat