Sometimes, we play small. We hide out.Sometimes, we get into relationships that want to control us, to overshadow us, to keep us small.AND, sometimes, we just get an irresistible new idea of what is possible and we allow ourselves to run with it.GOOD NEWS: If any of those are true for you, you'll be inspired by this conversation with Lisa Cherney, and motivated to look at what's possible for you!Usually on Save Your Sanity, I'm talking with folks who are in, or have been in, a toxic relationship. Today, I'm bringing you inspiration, motivation, encouragement, and clear steps to not only see the future you want, but to have the courage to step into the future you want. When you've had #Hijackals in your life, you are so used to being limited by them, and by fear of what they think, want, or might do, right? It's natural. It's what the #Hijackal wants to achieve, too. And, you know when you want to step out of what a Hijackal wants you to do, you're going to meet with ridicule and resistance.Today, INSPIRATION from my friend, Lisa Cherney. She's fabulous, and appears fearless. She talks with me about how she made a HUGE SHIFT in the face significant downside potential. She lets you in on what was really happening within, and how she overcame trepidation, and not an insignificant number of folks saying, "Are you out of your mind?"BE INSPIRED!Big hugs,RhobertaHIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:How Lisa Cherney allowed herself to change course...even though she was wildly successful!What she had to go through, think through, and work through to make a huge shift in life and businessLisa's opinion on whether it's best to go cold turkey or slow releaseWhat about toxic naysayers who don't want you to change?Figuring out how you want your future to FEELThe downsides of fear-based decision-makingHow dealing with difficult people can serve a mission-based business owner GUEST: LISA CHERNEYLisa Cherney, now known as The Queen of Clarity, is host of the ground-breaking confession-based Get F***ing Real show for successful soulful entrepreneurs and founder of the GFR Squad, a lively community that is serious about embracing the GFR lifestyle and living a life without regrets.In 2014, after 15 years in business, Lisa Cherney got f***ing real and dismantled her successful 7-Figure business as the Juicy Marketing Expert. She was proud of the financial accomplishment, but burdened by the “monster” she created. It did not make her happy. To makes things worse her “6-Figures On Your Terms” events were helping hundreds of entrepreneurs make money fulfilling their mission and her refreshing “Cash Through Clarity” Marketing training was in high-demand around the world.But Lisa learned that just because something is successful and people like it, doesn’t mean you have to keep doing it. She always knew she had a low tolerance for not being happy (after all she left a “successful” corporate career, with companies like AT&T and Lipton at age 28), but now she knows her mission is to help other successful and soulful business owners GFR so they can get out of their own way and help more people!LISA CHERNEY has gifts for you: Her 12 GFR Commandments. You're going to love them! Find it HERE.Learn more at GFR.lifeFind on FacebookEnjoy on YouTubeFollow on TwitterFollow on InstagramFollow on LinkedInListen to Podcast Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? We can talk: Introductory session for new clients, $97CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER! I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.Learn more: TransformingRelationship.comListen to my podcastsLike my Facebook pageFollow me on Twitter: Stay in touch on LinkedIn: Find my inspiring graphics on Instagram:So much on my Pinterest boardsSubscribe to my YouTube Channel: ForRelationshipHelp --------------------------