Oh my gosh, what a special guest we have this week with my year-long travel buddy and fellow gayby, Iris Crowe-Lerma!Iris and I met in 2017 when we were on the same year-long remote working travel program, Remote Year.  We bopped around the world for an entire year with a group of 50 other people, but neither of us were out the whole damn time! Iris and I  pour one out for the missed international dating opportunities from that year (and the rest of our lives, really), we talk about the challenges that come along with coming out in your late twenties / early thirties (but prove it’s never too late!!), and we discuss how exactly one comes out when you're a bit older -- like, how does that even work??Iris also shares with us her personal challenges with coming out in a conservative and religious family, the frustration that comes with being in your early thirties and feeling like a teenager amongst adults, and that lightbulb moment where it all of a sudden made sense why her relationships with men just never seemed to work out...I'm obsessed with Iris, I'm obsessed with this episode, and I'm obsessed with you.  Let's gooo!Want to reach out to Iris?Instagram @icroweFollow along with Reaching Out!Instagram @reachingoutpodTwitter @reachingoutpodHost @michaelwingsit