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153 | Play and Pleasure Wisdom: Dobromil’s Stories

153 | Play and Pleasure Wisdom: Dobromil’s Stories

FromX Stories


153 | Play and Pleasure Wisdom: Dobromil’s Stories

FromX Stories

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Length:
72 minutes
Released:
Jan 28, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

➡️ {    DETAILS   }   Sexy is playful: time and space different from the daily norm, and it’s clear Dobromil loves it, loves talking about it, and has gained so much pleasure wisdom, including amazing examples of how to have a safer-sex convo:    R - relationship status B - boundaries — right now, where to go? D - desires — a specific want you notice in this moment? S - sexual health — testing status? Partnership status?  M - meaning — what does it mean for you? What do you want it to mean?   He shares memories of his first arousal (Blue Lagoon!), why his dad was surprised during his sex talk, porn and pleasure in the forest, realizing his attraction toward penises, an early experience on the Croatian seashore that was exhilaration and the first cruising and experience and also first ping of shame. We talk gay culture, feeling SO gay together, and a ritual of desire that led him to a group of radical fairies! We get early details of water feeling good, an ANGEL of a human with a relaxed family whose disposition was so non-judgmental it softened the same. Sensual details, being too shy to come out to his family, a lover who opened up his eyes to creating relationships he wanted, and rewriting the monogamy script, and discovering Cindy Gallop’s Make Love Not Porn Ted Talk and wondering how to consciously go off script. Which led to more exploration, tantra, creativity, The Rainbow Gathering in Italy, a Croatian festival with sex workshops, The Mulit-Orgasmic Man, and getting pleasure from giving pleasure, youth nights at the (gay) saunas, and the difference between boundary setting in Eastern vs Western Europe, and the differences across sexual cultures, along with experiences getting STI tests in different countries, how condoms are like a diving suit, and getting turned on by straight porn!   ➡️ {    STATS   } 33-year-old homoflexible Slavic man; socialized gay, is now opening up; he is polyamorous and has a handful of lovers in addition to a primary partner, and is into edging, (Neo)tantra, is a sexually benevolent dominant Top, and he was trained as an anthropologist and relationship counselor, a radical Faerie, and also has worked on and off as a tantra practitioner and traveler.   ➡️ {   JOIN THE MISSION   }   Explore your creativity / watch me explore mine: https://www.mission69.org   ➡️ {   GET BETTERHELP   }   Support yourself & Sex Stories: https://www.betterhelp.com/sexstories 
Released:
Jan 28, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode

Titles in the series (100)

Sex Stories is a podcast where mostly anonymous guests share the details of their sexual desires, delights, disappointments, discoveries, and dreams. These hyper-personal interviews offer a hot mix of practical how-to, insight into other peoples’ feelings about sex (so dating apps start to make sense), and gives listeners a chance to safely fantasize about what they might want but have never dared to ask for, and how it might feel. And, while the conversations are super duper thoughtful and respectful, listeners say they get turned on listening, a lot. Created & hosted by Wyoh Lee, an artist/filmmaker who is happily horny, gets rejected a *lot,* and is endlessly curious about and delighted by the sexy things humans crave and enjoy. Her goal in sharing sex stories is to better understand different peoples’ emotional experiences of sex, to spread examples of how trust and safety are hot, and especially to show how talking about it ahead of time is a turn-on. When we practice prioritizing pleasure over fear of judgement, we have better sex. More connected sex. Hotter sex. Partners who listen together report wildly amazing new levels of connection that have led to new phases of joy in their relationships and their sex lives. Solo listeners have been inspired to explore kinky things that had only ever existed in their dreams, have connected to and LOVED their bodies in brand new ways, and so many happy lovely humans have discovered butt pleasures thanks to the anal normalization that's happening on-pod. Let’s lead better-laid lives. Let’s create a world where taking care of each other is the norm. Let’s smash some shame & make & share sex stories. www.sexstoriespodcast.com / @sexstoriespod