➡️SHAME-O-METER: a 2 or 3 Mostly out; not with his mom, yes with his siblings Wants to tell her, doesn’t know how She suspects — someone asked him, Don’t you have a girlfriend? Or a boyfriend? “I’m actually just enjoying myself ... not just pleasing other people”     TURN-ONS: Thigh high stockings Short skirts See the shape of the ass Feminine guys Nice butts everywhere     TURN OFFS: He’s not so much into beards (but maybe) Not wanting to use a condom — safer sex convos are straightforward for him   EARLY YEARS:  Sex was taboo; no one talked about it Friends saw parents doing it Sex Ed in High School biology lesson; students weren’t separated, were snickering A talk from his mom: don’t get anyone pregnant Church-wise, just be solid with the 10 commandments; church was community, they didn’t talk about sex   SELF-EXPLORATION: 12-13 years old: DVD w music videos Fiesta: R Kelly & Jay Z & topless ladies Details of masturbation discovery: a GLORIOUS story Stopping himself the first time, afraid to pee Prepared next round with a bucket: got a bucket in case of pee, discovered cum   EVOLUTION: He loves toys now! 00:13:58:13 Any movies not from Nigeria were black market all the way—including porn mostly used imaginations of porn   HIGH SCHOOL: They talked about it one on one, not in groups One on one explorations/touches — a neighbor who came to see him  16:34 “So let it happen” A suspicious neighbor An unfortunate cockblock Another neighbor by the well — her well was dry! A fine girl, with big tits   Summer of tease Summer of cockblocking   DISCOVERING QUEERNESS: Writing it off, of course I like my friends A friend who showed him how to masturbate — interrupted (again!) by parents No sign of judgement, no shame, felt normal — if you like it then you like it Younger years: jumped in, go with the flow   MOVING TO GERMANY: First years: mostly learning the language and the area GERMAN SEX TOYS?? First jumped into Anime — and then discovered Hentai Why he likes amateur porn His masturbation routine(s) and explorations   FIRST TIME WITH A BUTT PLUG WAS SCARY TWO fleshlights!!! Turns it on first Loves edging with toys Can cum faster with his toys Great details of his sensitive spots   TINDER: mostly guys so far! Is patient and COVID-conscious.   EXPLORATIONS: BDSM is on his horizon Wants to go slow and learn what he likes and what he doesn’t like before he enters Fantasies about being Dom’d by guys and girls An opportunity early on to be a bull Baby steps!   GROUP SEX: Excited for it He’s super great at reading what is needed in a place A couple almosts, one with a couple — HOT threesome…mostly It’s so HOT to not force things Sexual patience because he gets himself off And, the familiarity of impatience: i “Hey, I sucked that dick.” I see a need, I fulfill it. I want to please me, too. A two-way street to enjoy the situation.   BLOWJOBS: Basically, I go as slow as I can Tongue? Teeth? Balls? A Finger Up Your Ass? Hotttt group sex orgy fantasy   Taking it one experience at a time. Advocates for talking to kids about sex. Letting young people know how to be safe, how to communicate with one another Let them know to enjoy themselves, we should enjoy ourselves   Beyond Birds & Bees by Bonnie J Rough   Charlie’s process: talking himself through scenarios, being his own friend.   How would Wyoh be different if she hadn’t gotten rejected during her initial forays into sex?      ➡️ 30 years old, African Christian Home , Male, He/Him, Bi, Single (Still a Virgin), Not so Kinky (yet), Warehouse worker, Home Town Lagos. Nigeria, Curently living in Bremen. Germany   ➡️ {   JOIN THE MISSION   }   Explore your creativity / watch me explore mine: https://www.mission69.org   ➡️ {   GET BETTERHELP   }   Support yourself & Sex Stories & see how awesome therapy is: https://www.betterhelp.com/sexstories