In part I of a discussion on the genesis of same-sex attractions (SSA), we tackle the extent to which genetics, temperamental predisposition as well as different family dynamics are associated with the development of homosexual inclinations. In addition, we talk about narcissistic parental relations and their impacts on children, the concept of defensive detachment as well as how homosexuality can be seen as a reparative drive. Is there a gay gene? Am I predisposed to developing SSA? What roles do my father, mother and siblings play in this? We will explore these and other questions in this episode.*General trigger warning: Episode may evoke painful memories and emotional reactions.*Links to books mentioned in this episode:- My Genes Made Me Do It! Homosexuality and the Scientific Evidence- Reparative Therapy of Male Homosexuality: A New Clinical Approach- Shame and Attachment Loss: The Practical Work of Reparative Therapy- Coming Out Straight: Understanding Same-Sex Attraction- The Battle for Normality: A Guide for (Self-) Therapy for Homosexuality