Family Wounds: Part 1 (Fathers)

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Family Wounds: Part 1 (Fathers)

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Feb 17, 2021

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Dr. Bob and Jake discuss the power of a father’s love and his capacity to wound. Fathers plant deep seeds in their children’s hearts with what they said or didn’t say and what they did or didn’t do. The restoration of wounds from our fathers is life-changing.

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Feb 17, 2021

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A practical discussion where two former therapists share what they learned professionally and experienced personally about the healing and restoration of our God-given glory

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