"Why is my kid so lazy?" Hold that thought! I'm excited to welcome my friend Dr. Lisa Damour to the show this week. We discuss the science behind motivation, intrinsic vs extrinsic motivation, goodness of fit, and much more as it relates to our kids and school.   Follow her work: drlisadamour.com She has written for the New York Times and CBS News  Follow her terrific podcast Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Parenting   Sponsored by Caraway: Visit www.Carawayhome.com/humans or use code humans at checkout for 10% off your next purchase! Moonjuice: To get the sleep of your dreams, head to www.moonjuice.com/HUMANS and use the code HUMAN at checkout for 20% off. Once Upon A Farm: Once Upon A Farm: Use code HUMANS at www.onceuponafarmorganics.com for 35% off your first subscription order.   Produced by Dear Media