Are You Assuming Positive Intent?

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Are You Assuming Positive Intent?

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Jul 12, 2021

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Do you sometimes get offended or defensive with your partner based only on your own interpretation of their actions? On this episode of Small Things Often, learn how assuming positive intent can create more trust and communication between you and your partner — and change your relationship for the better.

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Jul 12, 2021

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